One great sex tip to spice things up is this: Surprise! Make a home movie of yourself and play when your partner is getting home, wait for him in the bedroom, he'll sure want to meet the movie star... Or maybe you could also rent an adult movie and let him catch you watching it and touching yourself, invite him to join you.

Use your creativity, call your partner at work and say the dirtiest things or turn on your webcam while your lover is at the office and show what you wanna do later... Be spontaneous and have fun!