When you've been in a realtionship for a long time, things can get to a boring routine and you start loosing that heat, these tips will help you to spice things up a little.
1. Wake up and say, "I just had the dirtiest dream." When he asks what it was, insist on showing him.
2. Wear a fresh lily or sprig of freesia in your hair to feel incredibly island-sexy. Smells yummy and looks even yummier.
3. Wear stilettos to bed. Kick heels off during the action to look wild with abandon.
4. Get into the groove by slipping his and her headphones on during nooky. No more worries about the sexy tunes waking the kids.
5. After he goes to sleep, compose a steamy letter (like "When I see your [fill in the blank], it makes me so hot...") and slip it into his shaving kit for him to discover in the morning.
6. Make love with lights on and eyes wide open to connect in a whole new way.
7. Send him off with a grocery list: chocolate sauce, honey, powdered sugar, whipped cream. Call his cell and tell him exactly what you plan on doing with it -- it'll drive him wild right there in aisle nine!
8. Sneak red lightbulbs into bedside lamps to give the room an otherworldly glow -- less messy than candles, but just as seductive!
9. Turn off the TV and play strip Monopoly instead. Lose a hotel = lose your undies.
10. Move to the foot of the bed before getting frisky. See how much one small change can rock body bonding.
11. Dab his cologne on a few extra-erogenous zones: cleavage, nape of neck, between thighs. Inhale his sexy scent all day and let your mind run really wild.
12. Play hooky and make love on the sofa. Being "bad" for a day will be a big adrenaline rush, and having the house to yourselves for out-in-the-open action will make you feel like nooky-crazed newlyweds.
13. Wear his white dress shirt to bed with nothing underneath. Then get creative with a couple of his ties.
14. Slip a sexy photos in the mailbox before he gets the mail, with a Post-it that says, "For Your Eyes Only." Talk about a special delivery!
15. Give him a private belly-dancing show -- rotate hips in a circular motion while shaking and shimmying shoulders.