Masturbation has been a taboo for too long and it's time to let ourselves go and enjoy the pleasures of self stimulation.

Masturbation does not have to just be a solo sexual activity, it can also be a means of sharing pleasure with your partner. Many people enjoy watching their partner masturbate, and gain pleasure in return from performing this activity for their partner. It can be a thrilling way to start the night, or something you can both do while pleasuring each other.

Masturbation also allows partners with different sex drives to feel satisfied within the relationship. You or your partner can masturbate separately or with each other to relieve sexual tension and attain sexual fulfillment when the other is unable/unwilling to engage in intercourse or sexual play.

Another benefit of masturbating together is showing your partner what you l ike. Most people who masturbate don't have trouble getting themsleves to climax, and it never hurts for a sexual partner to see some other techniques for pleasuring the other.

Unfortunately, many individuals have trouble masturbating in front of their partner. They believe masturbation is a solo or secretive act, which they feel embarrassed to share with others. You should never pressure someone to perform something they do not want to do. If you would like to have your partner masturbate for you, you can bring up the subject, but not press if they would prefer not to.

Tantric sex is still a mistery for many people, this is only an informative article, but if you wanna find out more about this practice, there's plenty of wonderful books explaning about it.

Tantra is the total surrender of all mental, emotional and cultural conditioning, so that universal life energy can flow through you freely. Tantra not only expands consciousness, it liberates it.

It treats sexual energy as an ally, rather than something to be suppressed or discussed behind closed doors. It does not deny sex, just the opposite in fact; it embraces sex. Tantra is the only spiritual path that states that sex is sacred and not a sin.

There is a most beautiful word for sex in the Sanskrit language, and that is Kama, which means sex and love go together; they're undivided and indivisible. Most everyone is familiar with the classic Kama Sutra, the 7th century Tantric scripture.

With these winter locations for sex, your winter will be hot! That's right, take a look and find out why.

1- Gondola
Whether you plan to ski, snowboard or head to the top of a mountain for any reason, use the opportunity to engage in a quickie in the gondola. The ride up the mountain will take on a new meaning.

2- Top of a mountain
If you're feeling bold, head to a secluded spot at the top of a mountain and get your groove on. She'll be coming 'round the mountain when she comes.

3- Cross-country skiing/Snowshoeing
If you opt to take the scenic route on a winter day, you're bound to find a spot where you can stop and penetrate. Sex in a winter wonderland will definitely leave you with a new appreciation for the season.

4- Log cabin
Head up to a deserted cabin with your lady and enjoy some privacy. You can opt to get it on inside or out, just be careful that your asses don't get stuck to the ice if you head on out for your escapade.

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When you've been in a realtionship for a long time, things can get to a boring routine and you start loosing that heat, these tips will help you to spice things up a little.

1. Wake up and say, "I just had the dirtiest dream." When he asks what it was, insist on showing him.

2. Wear a fresh lily or sprig of freesia in your hair to feel incredibly island-sexy. Smells yummy and looks even yummier.

3. Wear stilettos to bed. Kick heels off during the action to look wild with abandon.

4. Get into the groove by slipping his and her headphones on during nooky. No more worries about the sexy tunes waking the kids.

5. After he goes to sleep, compose a steamy letter (like "When I see your [fill in the blank], it makes me so hot...") and slip it into his shaving kit for him to discover in the morning.

6. Make love with lights on and eyes wide open to connect in a whole new way.

7. Send him off with a grocery list: chocolate sauce, honey, powdered sugar, whipped cream. Call his cell and tell him exactly what you plan on doing with it -- it'll drive him wild right there in aisle nine!

8. Sneak red lightbulbs into bedside lamps to give the room an otherworldly glow -- less messy than candles, but just as seductive!

9. Turn off the TV and play strip Monopoly instead. Lose a hotel = lose your undies.

10. Move to the foot of the bed before getting frisky. See how much one small change can rock body bonding.

Deep inside, there's no person who hasn't ever considered the idea of having a threesome, that doesn't mean we all have to try it, read along...

For very sexual people, or for those who are bi-curious, a threesome can genuinely be an electrifying experience. However, for those who are agreeing to a threesome solely for the purpose of pleasing their partner (but who are not really into it), there can be repercussions.

A very common example of a negative experience is of a spouse or a partner in a serious relationship, where there is LOVE involved, with the very real potential of jealousy affecting the ongoing relationship. As much as you may want to fulfill your partner's fantasy because you love him or her, beware…….this is not an easy task when you are in love. Even for the most sexual people, love creates problems when it comes to threesomes, and even if you are bisexual and want to have a threesome for selfish reasons, it can still be very difficult for you to see your loved one participating in a sexual act with someone other than yourself.

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